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Originally posted by NotFromHere
Never reveal the real number. Your bf/gf doesn't really want to know. It will come back to haunt you. The number is either higher or lower and can be used out of context in a future argument about nothing (e.g. well you're the ho who slept with 20 guys or how would you know, you've only been with 2 guys).
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Agreed. I would never ask. In my current relationship, I was asked, and feeling that it was none of her business, I told her so. Then, when pressed, I decided to lie. Much later, I copped to the lie, and came up with a number that, while closer to the truth, was still too low to be accurate. The real number is hazy (do you count just oral, or no -- and how to count those group situations?) and would take too much work to calculate, and it's really nobody's business but mine anyway. Hence the lie is justified.
str8.
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