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Originally posted by Spanky
I have to disagree. For first impressions looks are important. So for picking up strangers looks are important for men. When it comes to hooking up with a girl you know, other stuff becomes a factor, but when you walk into a bar or other place, and you don't know the girl, looks make the whole exercise alot easier.
My experience is that women who have an ugly boyfriend, they have met them in some circumstancce where they were thrown together. I had a client who was a lingerae model, and she was married to one of the ugliest guys in the world, but they met working at the same restaurant and he was there for her when her ex dumped her.
But for meeting attractive women that you are not forced together with by external circumstances, looks are important.
In addition, there are the guys women sleep and fool around with and the ones they have long term relationships with. Good looking guys get to have a lot more flings with attractive women than ugly men do.
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I do not disagree that looks are important to men. I think that looks are very important to men. I just don't think they are as important to women -- first impressions or no first impressions. That was my point -- that looks are not so important to women, so that the presence or absence of hot men in the world that happen to be gay just doesn't factor into heterosexual relationships to the degree you think it does.
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