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Originally posted by dtb
That's great that you are pleased with your life's choices - I'm pretty sure I speak for the oval of oafishness when I say that no one has a quarrel with that. What they have a quarrel with is your apparent belief (again, I honestly don't think you believe this) that everyone else must rank life's choices the same way you do.
Some people shouldn't become parents. If a person recognizes that about him/herself and avoids parenthood, I respect that a whole lot more than someone who has a child because s/he was trying to live up to someone else's ideal of what a "complete" life is.
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It isn't what society dictates to you should be a complete life it is that the feeling of having been enriched by your mate and your kids is a good feeling. Those that shouldn't have kids? Then don't. It's not about pleasing society or pleasing my rigid views of what makes people happy. It is about ironically enough about trying to cut thru the vapid shit like pucci dresses and red hi cuts and getting to what is real.
At the end of the day do I give a fuck that she wants to die alone with cats? I'm very cranky right now. sorry dtb.
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