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Originally posted by patentparanyc
Everyone acts like what TM wrote is the gospel truth and size 12 is so ginormous and I *MUST* be gawd awful ugly, now I volunteered, certainly but I am sure, that everyone here that is a woman is like a size 6 and all the wives are trophy and no one is plain, and...they are all well dressed? right? right? Please. Like it was told to me in private, yes, he was too harsh, yes you are normal looking and well put together....and certainly not ugly.
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Why am I going to bang my head against this particular wall? I don't know, but here goes. Even though so many others have done so before me.
Listen. No one cares what size you wear or what you look like. No one made it an issue. Except you. And no one is continuing to make it an issue. Except you. (And TM now too, since you pissed him off, and he's exacting revenge.)
I don't care what size you wear. I don't care if you are pretty or ugly. Whether you are pretty or ugly or slim or fat has nothing to do with whether I am pretty or ugly or slim or fat. They are unrelated.
I did not put myself out there for TM to evaluate for the board. You did. You didn't like what he had to say. Fine. We get it. You disagree with him.
But as we've all told you time and again, beauty is a subjective thing. TM did not find you attractive. Fine. Rather than trying to disprove his subjective findings, why don't you just accept them? Okay, so TM didn't find you attractive...big whoop.
What's happened here, however, is that you've become so focused on proving him wrong (by calling him too harsh, calling him a meanie, suggesting he's a liar, calling him unattractive, etc) that you've become a laughingstock. Not because you are unattractive or heavy, but because you are so self-absorbed and insecure that you actually care whether we think you are attractive and thin.
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