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Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
I don't think so. I had doubts before the wedding (call me stupid, because I married him anyway) but everyone seemed to think he was just great. If someone else had said something that didn't make me think I was crazy for having these doubts, I might not have married him. It was a case of me not trusting my own judgment.
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You say, "before the wedding," but what does that mean? The day before? A month before? Right after you got engaged? The whole time from the engagement until you walked down the aisle? If there
was a window where you were having serious doubts, how can you expect people to know when that is?
Also, people react to your feelings. If you expressed some doubt or looked like you were having serious second thoughts, I'm sure your friends or family would have sat down with you and eventually would have gotten around to telling you what they thought. But everyone's goal is to see their friends happy. And short of marrying someone who is a fucking complete dick who might abuse you in some way or make your life otherwise completely miserable, they will assume you are doing it because it makes you happy. That assumption will be stronger the closer you get to the date of the wedding.
TM
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