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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
Bullshit. I've known a few chicks who were utterly stunning who seemed aloof until I actually made the effort to meet them. Most of them were actually rather shy and kind of socially awkward because people rarely addressed them normally.
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I assure you it's not bullshit.
Maybe it's different with chicks, I don't know. I don't not/approach chicks based on their looks (or anyone, for that matter, but whatever...). Wait, I take that back. The other day I was shopping and thought I recognized this woman in the store, but couldn't remember from where. I went to approach her, but for a moment I hesitated, because I thought maybe she was someone famous, and didn't want to say, "Don't I know you?" if it was because she was on tv.** Turns out, she's not from tv, I remembered why she looked familiar, said so, and then we had a friendly little chat... and then had hot lesbian sex in public, right there in the middle of the shop (that's for you Atticus). But I digress.
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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
The hot guy you know probably just has no personality.
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Nope, that's not it. He's perfectly charming with me. He can be a bit of what I refer to as an "angry man" -- you know, getting way too riled up over things that aren't important -- but otherwise, he can turn on the charm when he wants/has to.
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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
By the way, no matter how hot a guy is, he still has to work it. I don't know any cat who can just stand at a party and wait for chicks to hit on him.
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You just haven't met the right guy yet. Don't worry. It will happen for you someday!!

(In case this isn't obvious -- this smiley is brought to you in the spirit of being cheesy. I hate how you can't do "tone of voice" over the internet. Well, at least I can't.)
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This happened to me once, and I was MORTIFIED. Luckily, it was just at a small brunch at a friend's house -- it's not like I randomly approached her on the street, but still. I made some lame attempt at covering by pretending that she looked a lot like someone I knew. I cringe every time I remember that incident. How uncool.