Seems to be a cooking lull, how about another twist on the fucking hypothetical?
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CdM: What do you do when your bf/gf/spouse does not desire the same fucking frequency as you (they may want more, or may want less). Do you fuck anyway, if you say it's OK despite your momentary disinterest, or the bf/gf/spouse says it's OK, despite their momentary disinterest?
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SF: When you figure this one out, let the world know. But charge them for the knowledge -- you'll be a rich man.
I assume the third question is "How do you count to three?"
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Suppose the same disconnect on frequency is going on, but gets worse, and the bf/gf/spouse's libido disappears, but he/she still wants affection and requests cuddling/snuggling/lounging together, but there can be no kissing, and sex is out of the question. Do you indulge them at will, out of compassion/love/what you will, despite the risk that you may exacerbate your own sexual frustration level (basically self-inflicted blue balls or blue clitori/g-spot, figuratively or literally), indulge them on occasion and engage in masterbation to avoid exacerbation, refuse to indulge them until their libido reappears, or take some other path?
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