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Originally posted by bold_n_brazen
I agree with Sebby about agreeing with the chick in the article EXCEPT that you know if you have sexual chemistry with someone long before you have sex with them.
What you don't know until you have sex with someone is whether or not it'll be any good. Which sadly has little to do with sexual chemistry.
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As to the former, are you mad??? I've known tons of chicks who've lamented "God, he was hot and everything seemed perfect, but [his dick was too small; he had bad technique; he had a horrible body; he smelled; he turned me off with his cheesy pillow talk; etc...]. I've gone home with girls who seemed like bedroom rock stars only to be really let down. You don't klnow the chemistry until you're both naked and going at it. Oh, and you must be naked in a well lit room the first time. Doesn't have to be flourescent light, but there must be enough light that you both check out each other in full. If you stay hot for one another after this first gig and there's an emotional spark, things will work from there...
As to the latter, I think you're mistaking flirting skills for sexual chemistry. No hint of sexual chemistry rears its head until your first kiss.