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Originally posted by robustpuppy
That spin made me dizzy! I think that the "I'm keeping this from you because it would only bother you needlessly" view is extremely insulting.
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I was taking it that there was a "burden" on me to duly inform the SO of whom I was having drinks with simply because said person was an ex and I had a "burden" of making the SO OK with that.
If I say "I'm going out," and the SO says "oh, with whom" and I lie "I'm taking medicine to my sick grandmother," that is one thing. I note that "dunno, some people" is generally deemed an acceptable answer in my household. Why shouldn't it be? Why should we expect to vet each other's social contacts, for any reason?
BR(but then again "me and the guys are going to some singles bar to watch the hot 20 year olds dis us" is also an accpetable answer, and the Mr. has had exes stay with us for a week or so when they are in town without feeling the need to make sure I'm emotionally stable enough to handle it, so we may just be outliers on this one)C
edited because my grammar not to good today
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