Merry Generic Winter Day-Off With No Religious Content

[Penske_Account]

Originally posted by ltl/fb
I second this, except I'd change 3 to "You aren't attracted to her enough to want to fuck her?" I suppose that's implied, but whatever.

Maybe she is objectively unattractive?

[Penske_Account]

Originally posted by ltl/fb


In answer to penske, I don't think I would want to have anal w/o a condom even in a committed, monogamous relationship. Is that weird?

I might be the opposite, but diffrent strokes for diffrent folks......

eta: when are we off the eak-bray ing-thay?

[ThurgreedMarshall]

Originally posted by Penske_Account
Maybe she is objectively unattractive?

ppnyc dumped Adder?

TM

[ltl/fb]

Originally posted by Penske_Account
Maybe she is objectively unattractive?

If he still wants to fuck her, that seems irrelevant.

Adder, only the conquest theory makes sense under Ollie's paradigm. I think. And conquest seems like the wrong term if she is an enthusiastic participant. AON, terming it "conquest" makes me not want to give it up to anyone. Blech.

[Not Bob]

Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
I wasn't saying it's worse. I wasn't even saying it was bad. I just think we've talked about everything.

TM

The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun. Ecclesiastes 1:9.

[Penske_Account]

Originally posted by ltl/fb
If he still wants to fuck her, that seems irrelevant.

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Maybe, maybe not. Perhaps he is really desperate to get laid, on the other hand the partner visually repulses him, i.e. conflict that is relevant to the decision making process, i.e. does the pleasure outweigh the pain or some psychobabbly equation like that.

[Sparklehorse]

Originally posted by Not Bob
The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun. Ecclesiastes 1:9.

Way to spice up the discussion!!

[ltl/fb]

Originally posted by Penske_Account
Maybe, maybe not. Perhaps he is really desperate to get laid, on the other hand the partner visually repulses him, i.e. conflict that is relevant to the decision making process, i.e. does the pleasure outweigh the pain or some psychobabbly equation like that.

It's still irrelevant. Doubly so since Adder said it's (1) and (2) and (3), however defined, isn't a factor. So let it go. Drop it.*



*This was the command to the dog to drop the tennis ball or stick or whatever so that it could be thrown again. When we had a dog when I was a kid. I miss her.

[ltl/fb]

Originally posted by Sparklehorse
Way to spice up the discussion!!

Now Robert Plant is groaning in my head about things being the same and being and never being. In a really jumbled way -- it's just bits of the song, whatever song that is, not the whole thing.

[dtb]

Originally posted by ABBAKiss
He wanted to get back together with me, and I said to give it time and maybe, but now there is no fucking way. I am not raising some other woman's child.

You have good instincts.

Trust them.

[greatwhitenorthchick]

Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
ppnyc dumped Adder?

TM

This is your best material.

[Oliver_Wendell_Ramone]

Originally posted by ltl/fb

but I'm hungry

Hungry for the anal, no doubt.

[Penske_Account]

Originally posted by ltl/fb
It's still irrelevant. .

Dissent. It is relevant to the decision making process but could be outweighed.

Originally posted by ltl/fb
Doubly so since Adder said it's (1) and (2) and (3), however defined, isn't a factor. So let it go.

Maybe Adder doesn't want to admit that she is ugly. Not everyone here is as unbridledly honest and forthcoming as you and I.

[ThurgreedMarshall]

Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
This is your best material.

You done working out? You wanna grab some coffee?

TM

[Not Bob]

Originally posted by Sparklehorse
Way to spice up the discussion!!

I was about to say thanks, but I see that I apparently triggered a Robert Plant event on fringey's mental soundtrack, so I will apologize instead.