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Penske_Account · 08-11-2005, 10:56 PM

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Originally posted by paigowprincess
I would never join a club that woud have me for a member.

Uhm.......

08-11-2005, 10:58 PM

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Originally posted by notcasesensitive
In my experience, people who show up at workplaces unannounced after a phone call is not returned are considered automatically creepy and potentially stalkerish. And they are typically mocked and/or feared by the co-workers of the showed-up-upon person, depending upon the personality type of the shower-upper.

Different planets indeed.

At what point do the actions of Spanky turn into full metal Stalker? He asked her if she wanted him to walk out of her life for good and she declined (or demurred, who can remember)? So why is that creepy and stalkerish? I would think the gal would be flattered by the effort put in by Spanky and the attenion. NOt obsession, but attention. Woman like that.

And in my experience, people who paint a deli logo on their frat wall belong to a shit fraternity probably too easily joinable and tus, not worth joining.

Penske_Account · 08-11-2005, 11:01 PM

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Originally posted by paigowprincess
At what point do the actions of Spanky turn into full metal Stalker? He asked her if she wanted him to walk out of her life for good and she declined (or demurred, who can remember)? So why is that creepy and stalkerish? I would think the gal would be flattered by the effort put in by Spanky and the attenion. NOt obsession, but attention. Woman like that.

And in my experience, people who paint a deli logo on their frat wall belong to a shit fraternity probably too easily joinable and tus, not worth joining.

"Ping! Pow!

Spanky · 08-11-2005, 11:04 PM

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Originally posted by paigowprincess
I would never join a club that woud have me for a member.

DID YOU CALL HER YET?

That is definitely another way of looking at it.

Penske_Account · 08-11-2005, 11:07 PM

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Originally posted by Spanky
That is definitely another way of looking at it.

Stay the course, man! Eye of the Tiger.

Spanky · 08-11-2005, 11:12 PM

I said: My experience with relationships has been that those that are easy to get ain't worth having.

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Originally posted by notcasesensitive
In my experience, people who show up at workplaces unannounced after a phone call is not returned are considered automatically creepy and potentially stalkerish. And they are typically mocked and/or feared by the co-workers of the showed-up-upon person, depending upon the personality type of the shower-upper.

Different planets indeed.

I am having trouble figuring out the relationship between these two posts. I have a sense that your response was an attempt at an insult. Does that mean you felt I had insulted you in my statement? And your response was a tit for tat? Why did you feel that my first statement was directed at you?

If your post was an attempt to dispute my statement where you questioning the veracity of my statement, or were you saying that eventhough that had been my experience, that in general relationships that are easy to obtain are better?

08-11-2005, 11:12 PM

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Originally posted by Spanky
That is definitely another way of looking at it.

I hope that miserable ncs hasn't dissuaded you from posting about whether you called. Like, if it happens to turn out that she was right and the Serb just isnt into you, would you not let us know on some male pride basis? Bc some of us are rooting for you, you know, and would like to know how it winds up.

Listen Spanky, this board is teeming with nothing but Spinsters and SHrews waiting to take piranhic bites out of you bc you have uttered a foul truth that is mostly correct. Nobody is pursuing their asses. No man is paying them all that attention and they certainly didn't choose to be a lawyer over a model.

Now, I expect to know about the call soonly. Lets face it, you are definitely calling her. Your adamnt position on the pursuit of the prize makes that clear. And you told her yoou would and it has been a day already. I know two days is industry standard, but you dont play games. I will assume that if we hear nothing furhter on this tale, that its bc you dont want to prove ncs correct.

Penske_Account · 08-11-2005, 11:14 PM

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Originally posted by paigowprincess
I hope that miserable ncs hasn't dissuaded you from posting about whether you called. Like, if it happens to turn out that she was right and the Serb just isnt into you, would you not let us know on some male pride basis? Bc some of us are rooting for you, you know, and would like to know how it winds up.

Listen Spanky, this board is teeming with nothing but Spinsters and SHrews waiting to take piranhic bites out of you bc you have uttered a foul truth that is mostly correct. Nobody is pursuing their asses. No man is paying them all that attention and they certainly didn't choose to be a lawyer over a model.

Now, I expect to know about the call soonly. Lets face it, you are definitely calling her. Your adamnt position on the pursuit of the prize makes that clear. And you told her yoou would and it has been a day already. I know two days is industry standard, but you dont play games. I will assume that if we hear nothing furhter on this tale, that its bc you dont want to prove ncs correct.

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08-11-2005, 11:15 PM

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Originally posted by Spanky
I said: My experience with relationships has been that those that are easy to get ain't worth having.

I am having trouble figuring out the relationship between these two posts. I have a sense that your response was an attempt at an insult. Does that mean you felt I had insulted you in my statement? And your response was a tit for tat? Why did you feel that my first statement was directed at you?

If your post was an attempt to dispute my statement where you questioning the veracity of my statement, or were you saying that eventhough that had been my experience, that in general relationships that are easy to obtain are better?

Oh man, Spanky is getting all PB Spanky on ncs. I hope she logs in later so I hve some good catchup in the am.

Spanky · 08-11-2005, 11:25 PM

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Originally posted by paigowprincess
I hope that miserable ncs hasn't dissuaded you from posting about whether you called. Like, if it happens to turn out that she was right and the Serb just isnt into you, would you not let us know on some male pride basis? Bc some of us are rooting for you, you know, and would like to know how it winds up.

Listen Spanky, this board is teeming with nothing but Spinsters and SHrews waiting to take piranhic bites out of you bc you have uttered a foul truth that is mostly correct. Nobody is pursuing their asses. No man is paying them all that attention and they certainly didn't choose to be a lawyer over a model.

Now, I expect to know about the call soonly. Lets face it, you are definitely calling her. Your adamnt position on the pursuit of the prize makes that clear. And you told her yoou would and it has been a day already. I know two days is industry standard, but you dont play games. I will assume that if we hear nothing furhter on this tale, that its bc you dont want to prove ncs correct.

I called her and got her voice mail. I left her a message. Said I would call back.

Penske_Account · 08-11-2005, 11:28 PM

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Originally posted by Spanky
I called her and got her voice mail. I left her a message. Said I would call back.

Eye of the Tiger!!!

Boo Berry · 08-11-2005, 11:35 PM

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Originally posted by Spanky
I called her and got her voice mail. I left her a message. Said I would call back.

Now you have to wait 5 days.

Boo!

Hank Chinaski · 08-11-2005, 11:40 PM

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Originally posted by Flinty_McFlint
Huh. Which one of you is Gump, and how are you so sure?

Its weird, Truth is you all are gump and NFH and i are Jennie, but we both realized you all think its the other way. but guess what? We are getting togehter this weekend and I bet we have trouble walking Monday and not because we need leg braces!

Hank Chinaski · 08-11-2005, 11:44 PM

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Originally posted by notcasesensitive
I completely agree that if you are talking to college and post-college women, the answer might change, but I wonder if that is really a good thing for you?

Are you saying he should just wait for the juvenile deliquent neighbor girl to hit 18?

ltl/fb · 08-11-2005, 11:47 PM

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Originally posted by Penske_Account
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Geez. You guys just want to see the trainwreck. You see the two trains on the same tracks, rushing toward each other, and you encourage them to drive on!!! Just so you can explore the carnage.

I admire you. Even I, unsympathetic to widows, orphans and the terminally ill, can't bring myself to do that. Nor can Pretty "heart of coal" Lady, apparently.