Ha

[ThurgreedMarshall]

Originally posted by Secret_Agent_Man
That's simple -- its all about preceived attainability.

S_A_M

No, it's really not.

TM

[greatwhitenorthchick]

Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
No, it's really not.

TM

So what is it, then? Because I don't really understand it otherwise.

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
So what is it, then? Because I don't really understand it otherwise.

maybe it's your expectations? Like a watched pot never boils. when you are dressed you expect to catch eyes, so waiting for it, it doesn't seem to happen.

[Anne Elk]

Originally posted by Icky Thump
I dated a Ford model once. We went on one date. I think her friend who was dating my friend planned it as some sort of group sex plan but when my friend wanted to leave early (asshole) nothing happened. Future attempts to date resulted in nil.

Of course, the next time I saw her I was running in a beard and gray sweat pants covered with an awful argyle sweater.

At least you weren't wearing jeans.

[Did you just call me Coltrane?]

Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
So what is it, then? Because I don't really understand it otherwise.

There are girls who can roll out of bed and look fantastic - no makeup, no nothing. We prefer to wake up to the same thing we went to bed with the night before.

[Secret_Agent_Man]

Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
No, it's really not.

TM

Well . . . not all of us are handsome black men.

S_A_M

[Did you just call me Coltrane?]

Originally posted by Secret_Agent_Man
Well . . . not all of us are handsome black men.

S_A_M

What? I thought this was the "Brothers in Law" board? Are you telling me that most of you people are white?

[ThurgreedMarshall]

Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
So what is it, then? Because I don't really understand it otherwise.

I think you probably act more relaxed and comfortable and therefore are more fun and attractive when you are more relaxed and comfortable. But I simply don't buy that guys are more likely to hit on you because you are more attainable when you don't look as hot. That's just ridiculous.

TM

[ltl/fb]

Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
I think you probably act more relaxed and comfortable and therefore are more fun and attractive when you are more relaxed and comfortable. But I simply don't buy that guys are more likely to hit on you because you are more attainable when you don't look as hot. That's just ridiculous.

TM

You look less high maintenance?

[ThurgreedMarshall]

Originally posted by ltl/fb
You look less high maintenance?

Thank you.

TM

[ltl/fb]

Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
Thank you.

TM

Except the new eye patch. It seems like whatever is under that may need maintenance. And it looks like you might wear a diaper -- yes, or no?

[Did you just call me Coltrane?]

Originally posted by ltl/fb
You look less high maintenance?

I just realized that I don't think I like lipstick on women. At least lipstick that significantly changes the color of your lips. Lip gloss is fine.

[Oliver_Wendell_Ramone]

Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
I think you probably act more relaxed and comfortable and therefore are more fun and attractive when you are more relaxed and comfortable. But I simply don't buy that guys are more likely to hit on you because you are more attainable when you don't look as hot. That's just ridiculous.

TM

Agreed. Also, I think it's easier to tell super hot from just attractive when it's sweats-and-a-t-shirt. The difference between sweats and full-on dressed up is bigger for average/attractive than it is for super hot, I think.

Personal preference plays some role too. I'm a major sucker for the right totally casual look.

[ThurgreedMarshall]

Originally posted by ltl/fb
Except the new eye patch. It seems like whatever is under that may need maintenance. And it looks like you might wear a diaper -- yes, or no?

Doesn't matter. Just keep the genital cuff away from me. I'll be good.

TM

[Oliver_Wendell_Ramone]

Originally posted by Did you just call me Coltrane?
I just realized that I don't think I like lipstick on women. At least lipstick that significantly changes the color of your lips. Lip gloss is fine.

But you're okay with lipstick on men?