Fashion Board--Penske . . . forever!

[spookyfish]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
Deal. PM me.

Hoo boy.

Why? Why do you feel the need to do this?

[patentparanyc]

Originally posted by spookyfish
Hoo boy.

Why? Why do you feel the need to do this?

Because. I feel like TM gave me a raw deal. some was truthful but some wasn't. Not like I'd go to each person until I find someone to agree with me--but to rate me as "not attractive" and "not pretty" is just a non-objective falsehood. And if shapey and sebby say I am not pretty then I will accept it at that point. I just asked the temp near me and she is SO BLUNT and she said, "no you are pretty why?" and she is beautiful.

I was thinking about it this morning. How TM handled it was a shitty way to go about it. I volunteered, no doubt but he was mean spirited about it. Fine if I don't meet your "high" "strict" standards and by no means lie, but he gets off on putting people down. What I spout on the board is empty rhetoric if certain people take it to heart they have issues. I wish no one any ill will and fuck, I am nice. He's MEAN. He fucking enjoys putting down people. and the ones that piled on were not my usual core of friends. They stayed the hell out of it or defended me.

Originally posted by str8outavannuys
Your eye blinks much more slowly than, say, mine.

Still haven't posted to/at "her", and no plans to do so now.

Indeed. The masterful slowness of my Blinking Buddha Eye Technique, which I have perfected through years of rigorous practice, often leads the untrained to believe I am asleep at my desk. Fools. I wait only to strike!!!

Originally posted by spookyfish
Hoo boy.

Why? Why do you feel the need to do this?

I am sure there are textbooks out there, if you have the time and really want to know.

[spookyfish]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
Because. I feel like TM gave me a raw deal. some was truthful but some wasn't. Not like I'd go to each person until I find someone to agree with me--but to rate me as "not attractive" and "not pretty" is just a non-objective falsehood. And if shapey and sebby say I am not pretty then I will accept it at that point. I just asked the temp near me and she is SO BLUNT and she said, "no you are pretty why?" and she is beautiful.

Oh, boo hoo. Of course it's not objective, you retard. Whether you are pretty or not is purely subjective. Whether you can stand to lose some pounds is a little less so -- then again, there's something you can do about that if you don't like that about yourself.

I don't understand why this bothers you. Why give a fuck what a bunch of people you don't really know think of you? You can't expect people to feel sorry for you if you invited this scrutiny.

If you do know some of these people, and they hold a negative opinion of your appearance, or anything else, for that matter, then maybe I would understand you caring about it, but otherwise, you're wasting a lot of time and energy unnecessarily.

[patentparanyc]

Originally posted by spookyfish
Oh, boo hoo. Of course it's not objective, you retard. Whether you are pretty or not is purely subjective. Whether you can stand to lose some pounds is a little less so -- then again, there's something you can do about that if you don't like that about yourself.

I don't understand why this bothers you. Why give a fuck what a bunch of people you don't really know think of you? You can't expect people to feel sorry for you if you invited this scrutiny.

If you do know some of these people, and they hold a negative opinion of your appearance, or anything else, for that matter, then maybe I would understand you caring about it, but otherwise, you're wasting a lot of time and energy unnecessarily.

Because. I have a big ego and he enjoyed trying to deflate it. I want vindication.

[spookyfish]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
Because. I have a big ego and he enjoyed trying to deflate it. I want vindication.

Even if this is true, which I don't think it is, Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

I happen to agree with that.

[patentparanyc]

Originally posted by spookyfish
Even if this is true, which I don't think it is, Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

Exactly. Okay? Gwinky was musing that I can stand on my own two feet and still stay here and post. Sure. Is it embarassing that that is how he assessed me? Absolutely! Does it define who I am or who I look like? No. Does it change my friends I've made here? no. they didn't give two shits. The only other thing I hated was it made me sound crazy. I'm many things but delusional ain't one of them. Very grounded. very aware when people are ignorning me or not into me. I knew he was going to pan me by the crypic shit he said when we parted, but I have faith in people and not to the extent he did.

[spookyfish]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
Exactly. Okay? Gwinky was musing that I can stand on my own two feet and still stay here and post. Sure. Is it embarassing that that is how he assessed me? Absolutely! Does it define who I am or who I look like? No. Does it change my friends I've made here? no. they didn't give two shits. The only other thing I hated was it made me sound crazy. I'm many things but delusional ain't one of them. Very grounded. very aware when people are ignorning me or not into me. I knew he was going to pan me by the crypic shit he said when we parted, but I have faith in people and not to the extent he did.

*THUNK* *THUNK* *THUNK*

[Shape Shifter]

Who likes me?

[spookyfish]

Originally posted by Shape Shifter
Who likes me?

You suck.

[robustpuppy]

Originally posted by Shape Shifter
Who likes me?

Objectively or subjectively?

(Hi!)

[Mmmm, Burger (C.J.)]

Originally posted by Shape Shifter
Who likes me?

like? or like like?

[Shape Shifter]

Originally posted by Mmmm, Burger (C.J.)
like? or like like?

Just plain like. Burger, you're a mod, can you set up a poll?

[taxwonk]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
Blah blah blah

<sniff> I wish I still missed her.