To fuck or to cook?

[Count de Monet II Esq]

Originally Posted by taxwonk

You're bragging about this?

We all make mistakes.

Originally Posted by taxwonk

. . .your blue balls are clouding your brain.

You gonna bust my blue balls now?

[PresentTense Pirate Penske]

Originally Posted by Count de Monet II Esq

We all make mistakes.



You gonna bust my blue balls now?

With my understanding that the SoL has run, I can now admit that blueballs was my sock.

Me scusa

[Adder]

Originally Posted by PresentTense Pirate Penske

Dissent. from my personal experience, Dan is partnered and they have a child.

And from all appearances would be married if that was allowed.

And also regularly gives sex advice to straight and lesbian people.

[PresentTense Pirate Penske]

Originally Posted by Adder

And from all appearances would be married if that was allowed.

And also regularly gives sex advice to straight and lesbian people.

Well, I was with you on the first sentence, as its true, and from first hand impression they look like a typical family unit.

On the second, I don't think he has any particular clinical background that gives his advice, gay or straight, any special validity. He is a good writer, informed on current events, and depending on your tastes for humour, npi, nttawwt, witty.

[Atticus Grinch]

Originally Posted by PresentTense Pirate Penske

On the second, I don't think he has any particular clinical background that gives his advice, gay or straight, any special validity. He is a good writer, informed on current events, and depending on your tastes for humour, npi, nttawwt, witty.

Agree, with the added observation that he was the first alt-weekly syndicated columnist who took the position that everybody has a basic moral duty to sexually satisfy the people they profess to love. It's a more mainstream view now, but imagine Ann Landers saying that if your partner said "Hon, I really need you to tie me up and spank me for me to get off" you have to make a real effort to learn to love it -- which is more practical advice than "You need to go to couples therapy -- if he won't go, go yourself" which is what Landers and Abby and their ilk always said when they didn't have an answer. I think the fact that he personally regularly has a kind of sex that forty years ago was understood to be a perversion meant that he was more than just a witty gay who gave advice -- he started from the twin assumptions that everybody needs to get off, and nobody really chooses what gets them off. In that sense, he's a cultural pioneer. I think a lot of people found his column and are now either less alone or less squicked out by the thought of helping someone get off in a way their mother hadn't exactly told them about.

The only time I've disagreed with him was when he said straights had a moral duty not to marry until marriage laws were reformed. I think everyone who followed that advice -- thankfully, no one -- would have put marriage "defenders" in a much better position and would have cut the centrists out of the marriage equality movement, making it the exclusive province of the citified horn-rimmed glasses set.

[taxwonk]

Originally Posted by PresentTense Pirate Penske

Dissent. from my personal experience, Dan is partnered and they have a child.

Right, then. Carry on.

[taxwonk]

Originally Posted by Atticus Grinch

Agree, with the added observation that he was the first alt-weekly syndicated columnist who took the position that everybody has a basic moral duty to sexually satisfy the people they profess to love. It's a more mainstream view now, but imagine Ann Landers saying that if your partner said "Hon, I really need you to tie me up and spank me for me to get off" you have to make a real effort to learn to love it -- which is more practical advice than "You need to go to couples therapy -- if he won't go, go yourself" which is what Landers and Abby and their ilk always said when they didn't have an answer. I think the fact that he personally regularly has a kind of sex that forty years ago was understood to be a perversion meant that he was more than just a witty gay who gave advice -- he started from the twin assumptions that everybody needs to get off, and nobody really chooses what gets them off. In that sense, he's a cultural pioneer. I think a lot of people found his column and are now either less alone or less squicked out by the thought of helping someone get off in a way their mother hadn't exactly told them about.

The only time I've disagreed with him was when he said straights had a moral duty not to marry until marriage laws were reformed. I think everyone who followed that advice -- thankfully, no one -- would have put marriage "defenders" in a much better position and would have cut the centrists out of the marriage equality movement, making it the exclusive province of the citified horn-rimmed glasses set.

Wow, you can even make the thought of a good round of slap and tickle seem clinical. Sometimes a lot of knowledge is not a good thing.

[PresentTense Pirate Penske]

Originally Posted by Atticus Grinch

Agree, with the added observation that he was the first alt-weekly syndicated columnist who took the position that everybody has a basic moral duty to sexually satisfy the people they profess to love. It's a more mainstream view now, but imagine Ann Landers saying that if your partner said "Hon, I really need you to tie me up and spank me for me to get off" you have to make a real effort to learn to love it -- which is more practical advice than "You need to go to couples therapy -- if he won't go, go yourself" which is what Landers and Abby and their ilk always said when they didn't have an answer. I think the fact that he personally regularly has a kind of sex that forty years ago was understood to be a perversion meant that he was more than just a witty gay who gave advice -- he started from the twin assumptions that everybody needs to get off, and nobody really chooses what gets them off. In that sense, he's a cultural pioneer. I think a lot of people found his column and are now either less alone or less squicked out by the thought of helping someone get off in a way their mother hadn't exactly told them about.

The only time I've disagreed with him was when he said straights had a moral duty not to marry until marriage laws were reformed. I think everyone who followed that advice -- thankfully, no one -- would have put marriage "defenders" in a much better position and would have cut the centrists out of the marriage equality movement, making it the exclusive province of the citified horn-rimmed glasses set.

Right, then. Carry on.

[Sidd Finch]

Originally Posted by taxwonk

Wow, you can even make the thought of a good round of slap and tickle seem clinical. Sometimes a lot of knowledge is not a good thing.

His first draft had citations.

[Sparklehorse]

Originally Posted by Sidd Finch

His first draft had citations.

Lawyer humor.

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by Sidd Finch

His first draft had citations.

if my theories are right his first draft had cum stains.

[Adder]

Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski

if my theories are right his first draft had cum stains.

Is the avatar meant to be a reminder to yourself or totherest of us?

[greatwhitenorthchick]

Originally Posted by Sidd Finch

If it's something like depression, there's no way to know that it's temporary. If it's a physical problem, maybe -- but if Count is complaining that his gf doesn't want to have sex until after the full-body cast comes off, then he's a cad.

At a guess, the excuse is something like "I'm just really stressed out over work right now...." But that's usually just an excuse

I am really late to this party* but what if it's a hormonal imbalance? My doctor told me when I got my testosterone-boosty stuff that many women have hormone imbalances and that can affect libido a lot.

*when did the food board become the sex board and why did no one tell me?

[PresentTense Pirate Penske]

Originally Posted by greatwhitenorthchick

I am really late to this party* but what if it's a hormonal imbalance? My doctor told me when I got my testosterone-boosty stuff that many women have hormone imbalances and that can affect libido a lot.

*when did the food board become the sex board and why did no one tell me?

Since CountDM become a mod. He was supposed to send you a memo, no?

[greatwhitenorthchick]

Originally Posted by PresentTense Pirate Penske

Since CountDM become a mod. He was supposed to send you a memo, no?

It seems like Count has some other things on his mind so I will cut him some slack on this oversight.