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10-05-2004, 12:54 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by Replaced_Texan
Are you talking about how she's acting towards you in particular or to the world in general?
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Can you address both?
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10-05-2004, 12:55 PM
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#2987
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Flyover land
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by Hank Chinaski
If only this worked with women...........we could just have a pizza delivered to fringe every afternoon and things would be more peaceful here.
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That actually would work. But I might become too festive for my desk chair.
ETA pretending to listen and interjecting "oh yes" "I agree" etc. is a bad move if you are with a woman whose IQ is higher than her shoe size. Doing it in a funny way, though, may make her laugh. |
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10-05-2004, 12:59 PM
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#2988
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Throwing a kettle over a pub
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by SlaveNoMore
All you do, man, is stare at their mouths and wrinkle your eyebrows, and somehow you'll turn out to be a big sweetie, okay?
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There's nothing wrong with letting the girls know that you're money and that you want to party.
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No no no, that's not gonna help. That's not gonna help and I'll tell you why: It doesn't unbang your Mom.
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10-05-2004, 01:00 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Monty Capuletti's gazebo
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
I would actually rather understand the thought process behind the behavior. I'm too stubborn to go along to get along. If there's a good reason for it, I want to hear it.
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There is no thought process behind the behavior. The most honest and rational woman will tell you that the most emotional of her behaviors - like the most emotional of males' behaviors - occurs during a temporary vacation from sanity or rational thought. It took me aout ten relationships and nearly as many years until an honest woman told me "You don't get it, do you? The emotion thing is not logical, and I can't control it sometimes when it happens." She, being clinically trained in medicine, was frustrated by the "emotional" thing. She could actually feel it coming on and got mad when it would fuck with her ability to think rationally. She and I agreed that I could "out" her when she was acting nuts, which was rare, but did happen, and she'd consciously try to avoid getting irrational. So far its worked.
Now me, on the other hand... I gotta see a fucking psychiatrist...
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10-05-2004, 01:03 PM
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by ltl/fb
That actually would work. But I might become too festive for my desk chair.
ETA pretending to listen and interjecting "oh yes" "I agree" etc. is a bad move if you are with a woman whose IQ is higher than her shoe size. Doing it in a funny way, though, may make her laugh.
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THIS is the cheapest way off the emotional rollercoaster. Make her laugh and you'll usually kill whatever emotional horseshit was going on...
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All is for the best in the best of all possible worlds.
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10-05-2004, 01:03 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Flyover land
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
Can you address both?
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You could agree to have her tell you if she's just bitching to bitch (venting), or if she's really serious. I'm assuming (ass, you, me) that you are dating someone intelligent enough and self-aware enough to recognize the difference.
God knows, you are moody as fuck.
To the extent this is on a monthly cycle, you could (for your own edification) analogize to how your behavior is affected when your hormones are whipped into a frenzy. Are your thoughts and perceptions substantively different? Do you have to go through an extra level of thought to determine rational behavior ("If I weren't hornier than an elephant's tusk, would I be reacting the same way?")? It's not dissimilar. |
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10-05-2004, 01:04 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Government Yard in Trenchtown
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by ltl/fb
That actually would work. But I might become too festive for my desk chair.
ETA pretending to listen and interjecting "oh yes" "I agree" etc. is a bad move if you are with a woman whose IQ is higher than her shoe size. Doing it in a funny way, though, may make her laugh.
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Yes, but it works better than grunting, and, let's face it, these are probably women in their late thirties who don't have a lot of alternatives. At least he's clean, right? |
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10-05-2004, 01:06 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: NYC
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by robustpuppy
You want to know a good "reason" for the "emotion." Heh.
(Men! Sheesh!)
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Yeah. That's just insane, isn't it? There's never any reason behind someone being sad or angry or happy or whatever. These are just phenomenon that occur without any outside influence whatsoever.
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10-05-2004, 01:06 PM
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World Ruler
Join Date: Apr 2003
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
THIS is the cheapest way off the emotional rollercoaster. Make her laugh and you'll usually kill whatever emotional horseshit was going on...
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Just make sure you make her laugh. This approach sometimes works in the opposite direction if you fail to make her laugh. Or so I've heard . . .
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10-05-2004, 01:08 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: State of Chaos
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
Yeah. That's just insane, isn't it? There's never any reason behind someone being sad or angry or happy or whatever. These are just phenomenon that occur without any outside influence whatsoever.
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It's phenomena (doo do do do do) you asshole!!!!
Hold me.
Last edited by robustpuppy; 10-05-2004 at 01:27 PM..
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10-05-2004, 01:09 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Flyover land
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by Greedy,Greedy,Greedy
Yes, but it works better than grunting, and, let's face it, these are probably women in their late thirties who don't have a lot of alternatives. At least he's clean, right?
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If he can't carry on a conversation, he should skip it and occupy his mouth with other things. Orgasms work as well (if not better) than laughter for changing a mood.
rp, am I correct in thinking that the people spewing this crap are married? another checkmark in the "single" column. |
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10-05-2004, 01:09 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Throwing a kettle over a pub
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by Shape Shifter
Just make sure you make her laugh. This approach sometimes works in the opposite direction if you fail to make her laugh. Or so I've heard . . .
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2. Doing or saying something that would usually make her laugh, but b/c of the mood does not, probably will make things worse.
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No no no, that's not gonna help. That's not gonna help and I'll tell you why: It doesn't unbang your Mom.
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10-05-2004, 01:11 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: State of Chaos
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by ltl/fb
rp, am I correct in realizing that the people spewing this crap are married? another checkmark in the "single" column.
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It's not as if you have a lot of alternatives, sweetie. Too bad G3 is taken. |
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10-05-2004, 01:12 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Flyover land
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by robustpuppy
It's not as if you have a lot of alternatives, sweetie. Too bad G3 is taken.
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What happened to the sisterhood, sister?!?!?!?! |
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10-05-2004, 01:13 PM
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Steaming Hot
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Giving a three hour blowjob
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Here's a generalization for you
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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
THIS is the cheapest way off the emotional rollercoaster. Make her laugh and you'll usually kill whatever emotional horseshit was going on...
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That is the most insightful thing you have ever said. It's totally true for me. Make me laugh and all is fine in the world. |
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