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Old 11-30-2004, 04:13 PM   #3571
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I just wish that the Poduknville Picayune-Post reporter ....
Picayune is a funny word.
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Old 11-30-2004, 04:19 PM   #3572
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If, for some reason it comes up:

(i) I don't plan to inform the Mr. of the public appointment mess, because I don't quite believe he could make it through the night without making a comment, particularly since the evening will probably involve huge quantities of alcohol. If it comes up at all, the Mr. will probably know I knew about it (because he knows I googled them) but didn't tell him. Anyone (TM?) have a good cover story I can use with the Mr. to avoid admitting "I knew but I didn't tell you 'cause I thought you'd tease him and I want to try to develop his wife as a client?"
I don't know why this last answer is unacceptable. Just soften it and then put him on the defensive. "Honey, you know you wouldn't have been able to hold this information in the whole night considering how juicy it is. Remember that one time when we met the Queen and you couldn't help but bring up Camilla? Well, I was hoping to avoid that because she would be a good client. I was going to tell you on the way home. Why would you need to know before we went anyway?"

If you don't want to go with that, when the couple brings it up, you should act like someone on the opposite side of a deal lives where they live and mentioned the story to you at a closing and told you all about how unfair the whole thing was. (This is an easy lie since the old-boy network isn't an infrequent topic at closings and it isn't unbelievable that people would share stories of how unfair they are treated for being a card-carrying member.) You were familiar with the story, but since no names were mentioned, you didn't make the connection. Feign surprise that such a thing could have happened to them. That way you can discuss what happened without getting into too much detail and later on, you can tell the Mr. that you suspected it was them at the time you talked about it at the closing, but you weren't really sure and forgot all about it.

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(ii) Any admission of pre-knowledge of this is tantamount to admitting I googled them (it's really the only way I'd have found out about it). How socially acceptable is googling people now?
The second scenario I outlined above takes care of this problem.

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Old 11-30-2004, 04:22 PM   #3573
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Picayune is a funny word.
Not as funny as "South Bandersnatch."
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Old 11-30-2004, 04:23 PM   #3574
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That's if Googling is not socially acceptable, which I think it is, as long as it isn't creepy. I recently confessed to another board regular that I had Googled ems real-world identity out of curiosity; perhaps em will pipe in with how creepy that was. (Note: em is the only person on the board whose real name I actually know, so if you haven't met me in person, I haven't Googled you.)
I think it's creepy. Not that you've Googled me or anything. Only 1 person here knows my real name and I don't think he really knows that he knows it. Still, I agree with Sidd that I don't think that it's entirely socially acceptable (at least to admit to the behavior), especially re: someone you hardly know.

Anyway I'm happy to learn that on a Google of myself, I find that I'm a medical doctor in England and also a solicitor in England.
Nothing shows up here in this country, which is how I've always wanted it.

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Old 11-30-2004, 04:23 PM   #3575
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And, college to pro doesn't work. See Erickson, Spurrier et al.
Add Butch Davis to the fold. (Thank God.)

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Old 11-30-2004, 04:26 PM   #3576
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Only 1 person here knows my real name and I don't think he really knows that he knows it.
Of course I do, Picayune Bandersnatch.

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Old 11-30-2004, 04:27 PM   #3577
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Of course I do, Picayune Bandersnatch.

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Old 11-30-2004, 04:31 PM   #3578
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Add Butch Davis to the fold. (Thank God.)

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This kills me...from the article - The Browns job may be the most enticing for a GM candidate in all of football.
In addition, the city itself is a very attractive selling point to any GM candidate and coach. (Really?)
It's a pure football city with extremely passionate fans. While some cities are more baseball or NCAA basketball cities, Cleveland is all about its NFL team. (I'm sure the Indians will be thrilled to know this).
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Old 11-30-2004, 04:31 PM   #3579
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That's if Googling is not socially acceptable, which I think it is, as long as it isn't creepy. I recently confessed to another board regular that I had Googled ems real-world identity out of curiosity; perhaps em will pipe in with how creepy that was. (Note: em is the only person on the board whose real name I actually know, so if you haven't met me in person, I haven't Googled you.)
I bet you were disappointed to find that I am not the B actress that shares my name and does guest spots on Married with Children and Moesha.

Not in the least bit creepy, and I assume that once someone knows my name, they're going to google me. I've sent e-mails with the re: line "You've been googled" when I find old friends through google. All of the responses have been positive.

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Old 11-30-2004, 04:32 PM   #3580
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I think it's creepy. Not that you've Googled me or anything. Only 1 person here knows my real name and I don't think he really knows that he knows it. Still, I agree with Sidd that I don't think that it's entirely socially acceptable (at least to admit to the behavior), especially re: someone you hardly know.

Anyway I'm happy to learn that on a Google of myself, I find that I'm a medical doctor in England and also a solicitor in England.
Nothing shows up here in this country, which is how I've always wanted it.

Anonymous and loving it.
Eh, fair enough. Personally, I'm Google proof, as I share a fairly common name with a semi-famous person such that nothing about me pops up in at least the first 10 pages of results.

But I would not be offended if, and woul even expect, someone meeting me professionally (which is different, I agree) to look me up in Martindale, and perhaps follow his nose from there (not that that gets you anywhere, especially since my current employer doesn't list us in Martidale).
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Old 11-30-2004, 04:33 PM   #3581
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I don't know why this last answer is unacceptable. Just soften it and then put him on the defensive. "Honey, you know you wouldn't have been able to hold this information in the whole night considering how juicy it is. Remember that one time when we met the Queen and you couldn't help but bring up Camilla? Well, I was hoping to avoid that because she would be a good client. I was going to tell you on the way home. Why would you need to know before we went anyway?"
Alternatively, you could simply say nothing, and abruptly turn and walk away. I hear that works pretty well.
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Old 11-30-2004, 04:44 PM   #3582
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In addition, the city itself is a very attractive selling point to any GM candidate and coach. (Really?)
Put a sock in it Bandersnatch. Have you been to my fine city lately? We've got a House of Blues now!!!! A House of Blues!!!!

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Old 11-30-2004, 04:49 PM   #3583
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BR(always a bit pissed that I couldn't be a member of any significant Freemason lodge)C
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Old 11-30-2004, 04:56 PM   #3584
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Phonak needs to fire the team doctor, who's been giving the team something funny to cause these positive results (perhaps blood). Is there any speculation on this--like they screwed up the autologous tranfusions, and switched blood bags or something?
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Old 11-30-2004, 04:57 PM   #3585
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If I'm a Division I athletic director or a pro team, I put this guy on speed dial and call him the minute it's official.
Stanford has an opening. Worked well the first time, both ways around. Unlike Bill Walsh, Ty hasn't lost it.
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