Fashion Board 4-6-04 to 5-7-04

[notcasesensitive]

Originally posted by ABBAKiss
It appears there is no consensus on the meaning of the word.

Question: Was Billy Ocean known for doing a lot of blow?

Um no. Has more to do with the ejaculate definition. Ocean as in wet. Or I gather that from TM's choice of where to quote the line. Homey.

[ABBAKiss]

Originally posted by notcasesensitive
Um no. Has more to do with the ejaculate definition. Ocean as in wet. Or I gather that from TM's choice of where to quote the line. Homey.

I am all about the urban-speak and am totally up on all the hip slang. And all the shoulder slang too.

[Not Me]

Originally posted by mmm3587
Ugh. I always laugh when women like you think that they have the upper hand with this kidn of bullshit game playing. At the end of the day, you should just do what you want to do without any prescribed approached to every potential relationship.

I've seen plenty of women try this, end up with some guy who played the game until he got as far as he wanted, sometimes even until marriage. After a while, the use of sex as a bargaining chip gets old, and the guy starts looking somewhere else. I'm sure that this kind of shit works well on some men, but why would you want to be with those losers anyway?

It is not about using sex as a bargaining chip. It is about not having sex until you feel you are with someone who is invested in a relationship with you.

I don't have casual sex. This is my choice. It is just not for me. So I wait.

FYI - I have had tremendous success with this approach. The men I have been with universally have remarked that they were happy to wait until I felt comfortable in the relationship. See there are quality men out there. You just have to find them. One good way to find them is to not waste time with the losers. A guy who isn't willing to spend a few months getting to know a woman before he has sex with her is not worth my time.

[sebastian_dangerfield]

Originally posted by notcasesensitive
Um no. Has more to do with the ejaculate definition. Ocean as in wet. Or I gather that from TM's choice of where to quote the line. Homey.

Hey, the "Ocean" beats the "pink glove".

[bilmore]

Originally posted by Not Me
It is about not having sex until you feel you are with someone who is invested in a relationship with you.

Given your specific dollar-amount requirements for dinners, wines, and (apparently) incomes, I think you're probably using exactly the right word.

[AnotherSarcasticSock]

Originally posted by bilmore
Given your specific dollar-amount requirements for dinners, wines, and (apparently) incomes, I think you're probably using exactly the right word.

And the guy had better be in to bondage because I'm guessing it isn't possible to be around this "chick" for more than 3 minutes unless she has a gag in her mouth.

[Alex_de_Large]

Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
Hey, the "Ocean" beats the "pink glove".

Anything is better than your "greasy roast beef" analogy.

[sebastian_dangerfield]

Originally posted by Alex_de_Large
Anything is better than your "greasy roast beef" analogy.

No dude, you're wrong there. The pink glove is way worse than the greasy roast beef.

[Sidd Finch]

Originally posted by Not Me
The men I have been with universally have remarked that they were happy to wait until I felt comfortable in the relationship.

Well, if you can't believe what a guy who wants to fuck you (after waiting FOREVER) says, what can you believe?

[Mmmm, Burger (C.J.)]

Originally posted by bilmore
Given your specific dollar-amount requirements for dinners, wines, and (apparently) incomes, I think you're probably using exactly the right word.

A propos of nothing, Donald Trump is engaged again:

http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmp...t/people_trump

[bilmore]

Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
No dude, you're wrong there. The pink glove is way worse than the greasy roast beef.

You guys need to meet some different women.

[Not Me]

Originally posted by bilmore
Given your specific dollar-amount requirements for dinners, wines, and (apparently) incomes, I think you're probably using exactly the right word.

It isn't about the money for me. However, if a guy won't spend money on a woman, it is a good sign that he isn't planning on sticking around. Or that he is cheap and I cannot stand cheap people.

As for him being financially successful, well, I am financially successful and I am not comfortable with a man who has less money then me. I don't need a man for his money, but I also don't want to be the one in the relationship who has more money. Call me old fashioned.

[Not Me]

Originally posted by Sidd Finch
Well, if you can't believe what a guy who wants to fuck you (after waiting FOREVER) says, what can you believe?

3 months is not a long time.

[ABBAKiss]

Originally posted by Not Me
As for him being financially successful, well, I am financially successful and I am not comfortable with a man who has less money then me. I don't need a man for his money, but I also don't want to be the one in the relationship who has more money. Call me old fashioned.

You are such an inspiration to all of us hitting that glass ceiling.* I heart people like you who play into the "men are worth more money" game.

*Not complaining, just making reference to various studies that show that the average woman makes like 72 cents per dollar of the average man.**

**This is not an actual statistic, just an example of what I mean.

[ABBAKiss]

Originally posted by Not Me
3 months is not a long time.

A long time to what? Get married? If that's what you mean, you are right.