The New And Improved Fashion Board

[notcasesensitive]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
Personal feelings, fine. But to "publish" them off board when the person is not there to defend themselves and turn it into a "comment fest" stoning is not cool. Especially when you essentially run the board. A higher standard is held to you.

I think she does a good job keeping her role here separate from her personal blog. And I don't think she has any duty not to post about things that bother her here there. I understand that it hurt your feelings, but RT did nothing inappropriate.

[patentparanyc]

Originally posted by notcasesensitive
I think she does a good job keeping her role here separate from her personal blog. And I don't think she has any duty not to post about things that bother her here there. I understand that it hurt your feelings, but RT did nothing inappropriate.

I really think it is a grey area as to whether it was appropriate or not. I really don't care one way or the other---now I know what she is really like, I can accept that, and move on.

Some trust has been violated here. I know I wasn't her best friend but I really didn't deserve the vitriol that was aimed at me. Again, I can accept that that is how she rolls and move forward.

[Mmmm, Burger (C.J.)]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
I can accept that, and move on.

I think I'm mainly correct in saying that if you move on, so will the rest of us.

[Cletus Miller]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
I really think it is a grey area as to whether it was appropriate or not. I really don't care one way or the other---now I know what she is really like, I can accept that, and move on.

If you don't like it, there is a VERY simple solution--just go away. I don't see that anyone else thinks it is remotely an issue.

[Tyrone Slothrop]

Originally posted by Mmmm, Burger (C.J.)
I think I'm mainly correct in saying that if you move on, so will the rest of us.

Come now -- a little more bitterness is in order if we're going to get this K knocked off today.

[patentparanyc]

Originally posted by Cletus Miller
If you don't like it, there is a VERY simple solution--just go away. I don't see that anyone else thinks it is remotely an issue.

Why Cletus? Why should I? The things I am being accused of, posting incessantly, being judgemental, being mean, etc. etc. other posters do all the time. And some of them get called on it too. And some are much fucking meaner that I am. I've posted less, I've attacked less, and I have every right to stay. I don't argue incessantly like some posters quoting long assed posts that go on for scrolling eons.

[Adder]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
Why Cletus? Why should I? The things I am being accused of, posting incessantly, being judgemental, being mean, etc. etc. other posters do all the time. And some of them get called on it too. And some are much fucking meaner that I am. I've posted less, I've attacked less, and I have every right to stay. I don't argue incessantly like some posters quoting long assed posts that go on for scrolling eons.

Because no one here likes you?

And for the record, I don't ever remember reading one of your posts and thinking, "she's mean." Usually it's just, "oh my god what a frickin moron."

[andViolins]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
Why Cletus? Why should I? The things I am being accused of, posting incessantly, being judgemental, being mean, etc. etc. other posters do all the time. And some of them get called on it too. And some are much fucking meaner that I am. I've posted less, I've attacked less, and I have every right to stay. I don't argue incessantly like some posters quoting long assed posts that go on for scrolling eons.

You do understand that there is a difference in having (as you state) a "right to stay" as opposed to wanting to stay, don't you? Please tell me that you do see the difference. For god's sake, please let me know that you understand the difference.

It will be my own little Christmas miracle.

aV

[Mmmm, Burger (C.J.)]

Originally posted by Tyrone Slothrop
Come now -- a little more bitterness is in order if we're going to get this K knocked off today.

Are you saying you want me to post my song parody again?

[bold_n_brazen]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
I really think it is a grey area as to whether it was appropriate or not. I really don't care one way or the other---now I know what she is really like, I can accept that, and move on.

Some trust has been violated here. I know I wasn't her best friend but I really didn't deserve the vitriol that was aimed at me. Again, I can accept that that is how she rolls and move forward.

Would it be okay if she and I sat in a bar and discussed how she or I felt about you?

Are you saying that she cannot criticize you anywhere on the interwebs because of her position of authority here?

Can she go to someone else's blog and post there about how much she doesn't like you?

[patentparanyc]

Originally posted by andViolins
You do understand that there is a difference in having (as you state) a "right to stay" as opposed to wanting to stay, don't you? Please tell me that you do see the difference. For god's sake, please let me know that you understand the difference.

It will be my own little Christmas miracle.

aV

aV I can honestly say....that no one who threw stones on that blog was anyone I considered a friend, no betrayals on that front. A few shockers since when have I ever interacted with a few that feel so....strongly....but that is on them--that is their bag.

So in view of that, I want to stay. I like a lot of people here and have no problem with them at all. I see the difference.

Merry Christmas, baby.

[bold_n_brazen]

Originally posted by patentparanyc
aV I can honestly say....that no one who threw stones on that blog was anyone I considered a friend, no betrayals on that front. A few shockers since when have I ever interacted with a few that feel so....strongly....but that is on them--that is their bag.

So in view of that, I want to stay. I like a lot of people here and have no problem with them at all. I see the difference.

Merry Christmas, baby.

Who do you like here?

[ltl/fb]

Originally posted by Mmmm, Burger (C.J.)
Are you saying you want me to post my song parody again?

if it had a holiday theme, I do!!

[Pretty Little Flower]

Originally posted by bold_n_brazen
Who do you like here?

Did anyone see if RT's blog had anything about me? Cuz, well . . . I don't know, just because it would be kind of nice. Maybe.

[patentparanyc]

Originally posted by Pretty Little Flower
Did anyone see if RT's blog had anything about me? Cuz, well . . . I don't know, just because it would be kind of nice. Maybe.

lol what are you, Fringey? "it's all about meeee"