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dtb · 07-05-2005, 10:58 PM

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Originally posted by bold_n_brazen
Even if she's just thinking about fucking Bill, it's pretty bad for you. Women want to have sex with men they fall in love with. This is a huge generalization, but I think even more appropriate when we are talking about within the confines of marriage.

I was going to say this exact thing, but somehow not quite so pithy and trenchant (which is why I gave up).

Or, in other words, 2.

pony_trekker · 07-05-2005, 11:08 PM

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Originally posted by cuckold
Thanks for your thoughts. Bill is her friend from way back who I've knon for a couple of years. I'm pretty sure, based on my reading, that the affair has only been going on for a month or two. But he's been working on her for a while. Seemed like a decent enough guy when he was just playing the field, until I learned that my wife was on that field.

Of course, the other option is to role play with Bill. You pretend you're Todd Bertuzzi and he pretends he's Steve Moore.

While I don't condone blindside punches in hockey I do think they would be approproate in this case. Where "he has been working on her" Bill should get shot, or at least his ass kicked.

str8outavannuys · 07-05-2005, 11:08 PM

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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
Gusto, yes, but I don't see the verve. I really don't see it.

He was up on stage with Coldplay wearing goofy shades.

str8outavannuys · 07-05-2005, 11:10 PM

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Originally posted by Greedy,Greedy,Greedy
I haven't made it through all these posts yet, but, tell me, why hasn't anyone yet suggested the obvious?

I pm'd him, telling him to pop a cap in her ass.

Didn't think it was board-appropriate though.

Hank Chinaski · 07-05-2005, 11:12 PM

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Originally posted by Penske_Account
If I ever come to any of all of all y'alls houses, be forewarned, I am a snoop. Lock down the computer and batten the hatches. I am obsessed with finding the hidden porn. RT, you are probably safe, I doubt you hide your porn.

Did you steal my contact lens solution from the medicine cabinet?

str8outavannuys · 07-05-2005, 11:15 PM

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Originally posted by ltl/fb
Catchy lyrics . . .

"You can try to swim
Until it sucks you down
Your body’s swept away
It might never be found

Turn around, don’t drown
Turn around, don’t drown"

Was it written by They Might Be Giants? I could see them doing a good job with this. Part of their new "educational song" jag they seem to be on.

I particularly like "E eats everything" off their latest.

str8outavannuys · 07-05-2005, 11:15 PM

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Originally posted by robustpuppy
Therapists are celibate?

I equate listening to relationship advice proffered on this board with listening to what other test-takers have to say about an exam in the hallway, whether before, during a break, or after. You don't know who's scoring in the 99th percentile and who's going to be posting "can I get into GW with a 147 if I have a 3.5 GPA from a top 50 college?" on the DC Board on infirm.

Well? Can you?

bold_n_brazen · 07-05-2005, 11:17 PM

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Originally posted by dtb
I was going to say this exact thing, but somehow not quite so pithy and trenchant (which is why I gave up).

Or, in other words, 2.

I will confess that I had to look up "trenchant". I will now forever aspire to it.

str8outavannuys · 07-05-2005, 11:18 PM

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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
cut and paste:

http://images.phun.org/phun/pics/news/jess.jpg

sfw (in a way)

TM

Every time I see her whoring herself out, and I think about how she/her dad/her cosmetic company breached their contract with my wife's company to allow them to use her photo in their stores to sell her stupid "Dessert" cosmetics line (because it was inconsistent with her "wholesome image"), it just makes me want to throw up all over the place.

BTW: She didn't get sued over this; wife's company was worried about the bad publicity and settled for a token amount. After my wife worked her ass off on this deal for 6 months. ARGHGHGHGHGH.

Skeks in the city · 07-05-2005, 11:18 PM

New study says that circumcised men are far less likely to catch AIDs than uncircumcised men. link to article I think triple G or one of the other soft-headed liberal types was saying circumcision was of no benefit. He can't say that any more.

pony_trekker · 07-05-2005, 11:26 PM

I did try that espin the bottle though, get a little strange on the side.

Skeks in the city · 07-05-2005, 11:27 PM

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Originally posted by bold_n_brazen
Women want to have sex with men they fall in love with.

I read there are studies showing that women are likely to fall in love with a guy because they have sex with them. Something about the hormones their brains release. Guys' brains supposedly don't release them, or as much of them, which is supposedly one of the reasons it's easier for guys to engage in casual sex than it is for women to.

sebastian_dangerfield · 07-06-2005, 12:35 AM

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Originally posted by cuckold
If I take the money out, it's going into an account of which she is fully aware but doesn't have access to. If she takes it out, no guarantees. She could blow it on a vacation with Bill, or whatever. I'm not so concerned with our long term investments - while they are joint property, they're under my control. And mostly in the form of untouchable retirement accounts. But wiping out our collective cash reserves would make life difficult as I set up a new household and arrange for childcare, etc.

Possession is 9/10 of the law, no matter where you are. You can always use cash as leverage. If you are the bread winner, you can cripple her short term cash flow, fucking up her ability to fight. Getting that cash back involves all sorts of legal bills she may not be able to pay if you strip out all the cash. Its kind of like a bank calling a default and freezing a line of credit. The debtor has to file all sorts of paper - sometimes a TRO (a fortune in fees) - to get that cash back. And what do they have in the meantime?

That said, don't be surprised if she's already got a contingency stash.

But if you do this, fire the bullet between her fucking eyes. You can't half ass this shit. I've had friends and family half ass it and the results were not good. The one who got nasty did unconscionable things to her cheating ex and cleaned his clock, emotionally and economically. But she did a lot of soul searching to determine whether to take that course. If you pull out that gun, be prepared to go all the way.

If it were me, I'd probably be lazy and try to walk away. So I understand your previous idea. But if you have kids, that shit's off the table.

So fuck her up. You're not getting her back, at least not fully, ever. If she's fucking someone else, she's not in the marriage anymore. Sorry to be that cold, but thats true. You're probably a nice guy (actually, your quote about losing the $5k to a girlfriend proves you gullibly so). You deserve a better gig than spending your life with someone who isn't into you as much as you're into her.

sebastian_dangerfield · 07-06-2005, 12:45 AM

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Originally posted by Skeks in the city
I read there are studies showing that women are likely to fall in love with a guy because they have sex with them. Something about the hormones their brains release. Guys' brains supposedly don't release them, or as much of them, which is supposedly one of the reasons it's easier for guys to engage in casual sex than it is for women to.

I don't buy that Mars/Venus shit. If that were the case, every casual fuckbuddy would fall in love with you. And I've seen guys fall in love twice as fast as chicks.

Of course, a lot of those guys fall in love with the idea of consistent sex. Thats basically half of all relationships from the male perspective. I have about four good friends who got married just because "Hey, its a hell of a lot easier than the singles scene and I didn't want to be the old creepy guy at the bar." And I know about three chicks who got married just because its what they thought they needed to do to pump out a kid before 40 and live "the complete life." A lot of people get forced into marriage. Its a shit gig the way society ages folks into social constricting behaviors... But whats the option? Everybody buys into the rules.

Hank Chinaski · 07-06-2005, 12:51 AM

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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
I don't buy that Mars/Venus shit. If that were the case, every casual fuckbuddy would fall in love with you. And I've seen guys fall in love twice as fast as chicks.

Of course, a lot of those guys fall in love with the idea of consistent sex. Thats basically half of all relationships from the male perspective. I have about four good friends who got married just because "Hey, its a hell of a lot easier than the singles scene and I didn't want to be the old creepy guy at the bar." And I know about three chicks who got married just because its what they thought they needed to do to pump out a kid before 40 and live "the complete life." A lot of people get forced into marriage. Its a shit gig the way society ages folks into social constricting behaviors... But whats the option? Everybody buys into the rules.

Fuck that conformist shit. At my wedding I made the band leave its horn section AT HOME!