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Old 05-11-2005, 05:46 PM   #616
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With all due respect, RT, what is this, high school? Guy A and woman are no longer dating. Therefore, what reason would he have for interfering in any way with Guy B? Are they roommates? Lovers? Did they have a pact, Jerry?!?
That is bullshit. Most people would like to think their friends aren't waiting around like vultures to fuck your gf once you've broken up. There are far, far too many women (if that's your preference) out there for you to be fucking the person your friend was in a deep relationship with. If your friend is okay with it or enough time has passed, then that's one thing. But if you've been in a meaningful relationship with someone and it ends that person is or should be off limits to your friends.

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Old 05-11-2005, 05:49 PM   #617
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1.) Should Guy B have made a move on Guy A's ex? Should he have waited longer?

2.) Should Guy B have told Guy A about the move on his ex earlier? (Note: Guy A was in Mexico the first week that they were dating.)

3.) Should Guy B expect to be cut out of Guy A's life (and possibly social circle) because of moving in on Guy A's ex?

4.) Should Guy B have apologized to Guy A about his actions?
Well, it's not like Guy B stole Guy A's unicycle, which would give Guy A every right to be upset. A good unicycle is hard to find.

So, I guess I would tell Guy A to get over his unjustified sense of entitlement.
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Old 05-11-2005, 05:51 PM   #618
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Ahem..... That would be me.
As some of you may know, I've been posting here a long time. There has never been a post that I thought was TMI. In fact, I would probably argue that this isn't either. But god DAMN it, if there was something out there I didn't want to read, this was it.

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Old 05-11-2005, 05:51 PM   #619
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On the plus side, its feasible that we're all perpetually one eight ball and three or four liters of vodka away from an orgy... I'll let you know if that ever happens.
Um, that's O.K., no need.
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That is bullshit. Most people would like to think their friends aren't waiting around like vultures to fuck your gf once you've broken up. There are far, far too many women (if that's your preference) out there for you to be fucking the person your friend was in a deep relationship with. If your friend is okay with it or enough time has passed, then that's one thing. But if you've been in a meaningful relationship with someone and it ends that person is or should be off limits to your friends.

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Dude, I'm sorry already. How many times do I have to say it? I'm lazy, and she was there. Meant no disrespect.
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Old 05-11-2005, 05:52 PM   #621
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So noted. We'll have to ask Dan his views on "toe-sucking."

BTW, what is a GGG girlfriend (mentioned in the second question)?
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I know this stuff about a lot of the people I hang out with, but honestly, can't you just tell by looking at a person what he or she is in to?
What am I into?
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Old 05-11-2005, 05:52 PM   #623
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I know this stuff about a lot of the people I hang out with, but honestly, can't you just tell by looking at a person what he or she is in to?
No. Not at all. Some of the most mild mannered looking people are seriously fucked up in the sack. Its like their one release zone where they go insane.
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That is bullshit. Most people would like to think their friends aren't waiting around like vultures to fuck your gf once you've broken up. There are far, far too many women (if that's your preference) out there for you to be fucking the person your friend was in a deep relationship with. If your friend is okay with it or enough time has passed, then that's one thing. But if you've been in a meaningful relationship with someone and it ends that person is or should be off limits to your friends.

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Very loyal to the friend, but takes no account of the ex girlfriend's wishes. She's not road kill, so he's not a vulture unless he exploited her vulnerability over the breakup to get her into bed.
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The odd thing about hanging out with folks who are involved with folks you used to fuck is that everyone in the room knows your fetishes. I hang out in a tight circle of college friends, some of whom are married to ex-gfs of mine, and some of whome hooked up with my wife. Everybody knows way too much about how everybody else "likes it."

On the plus side, its feasible that we're all perpetually one eight ball and three or four liters of vodka away from an orgy... I'll let you know if that ever happens.
It's happened with this group of friends. Though I'm not sure if Guy A and Guy B were in the same, er, sessions(?). That's why dick size comments aren't gonna get very far. There's a strictly enforced "no clothes" rule in one of our friend's pools. Sometimes it isn't pretty.
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That is bullshit. Most people would like to think their friends aren't waiting around like vultures to fuck your gf once you've broken up. There are far, far too many women (if that's your preference) out there for you to be fucking the person your friend was in a deep relationship with. If your friend is okay with it or enough time has passed, then that's one thing. But if you've been in a meaningful relationship with someone and it ends that person is or should be off limits to your friends.

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True, but if she's really, really hot, you can't act shocked when you catch your friend out with her.
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BTW, what is a GGG girlfriend (mentioned in the second question)?
It's a fictional entity. It does not really exist. Neither does the GGG wife or GGG friend. Hard to say why.
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Plaid pants and spinning hippy chicks. And making out at The Local.
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It's happened with this group of friends. Many times, though I'm not sure if Guy A and Guy B were in the same, er, sessions(?). That's why dick size comments aren't gonna get very far.
The orgy or the overlapping?
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That is bullshit. Most people would like to think their friends aren't waiting around like vultures to fuck your gf once you've broken up. There are far, far too many women (if that's your preference) out there for you to be fucking the person your friend was in a deep relationship with. If your friend is okay with it or enough time has passed, then that's one thing. But if you've been in a meaningful relationship with someone and it ends that person is or should be off limits to your friends.

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Oops. Um, you and I need to have an awkward conversation, but I think we should maybe do it in private.
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