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07-11-2005, 10:19 AM
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I am beyond a rank!
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Appalaichan Trail
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Update
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Originally posted by cuckold
I thought everyone would want an update.
I had a long talk with my wife on Friday. At least for now, we're staying together. Obviously, a prerequesit for that was that the affair is over (or maybe not obviously - googling "cuckold" comes up with some weird shit).
What convinced me to stay with it is that she truely seems to have turned a corner. I haven't pretended we weren't having problems, and the affair was a symptom of those problems, but we may have openned a door to solving those underlying problems. I'm willing to give that a shot, at least for now, because I still love my wife very much (considerations of the kids plays into it as well - I don't believe its best to always try to staty together "for the kids" but it does give extra incentive to try to work it out).
Oddly enough, it wasn't our discussion that brought about the change. I sent her off hand an e-mail earlier in the week about going to London for the Olympics. She said it made her pause and realize that she was throwing away a long term paln over short term frustrations.
I still haven't worked out what to do about Bill. I have of course made it clear I don't want him anywhere around. But it will be inevitable that I'll run into him someday. I need to have a plan, or I'll end up just sucker punching him. NTTAWWT.
Thanks to everyone for the advice and concern. Thanks especially to those who PM'd me with advice and offers to help. You don't know me (well, you do, at least in cyberspace, but you don't know that), and you willingness to help is much appreciated.
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Wow. Good for you and your level-headedness. I don't think there's any way my husband would ever get over my having an affair. I'm pretty sure his reaction would involve violence, but more likely against me, not Bill (proverbially speaking). I know he loves me and all that, but I'm sure he would divorce me (well, I'm not sure, as it's never come up, but that's what I think would happen). I suppose I'd probably get the children, and maybe he could see beyond his (justifiable) anger to provide them a two-parent household, but I don't know.
Which is why I would have to be absolutely blind/mad with desire before I would contemplate moving beyond the velleity stage to taking (or getting - heh) action. I'm not saying it could never happen, but it hasn't yet.
I could get over my husband's having a fling or whatever. What would bother me is if he were in love with someone else. That would seriously bum me out, but I could understand the sex thing. Of course, I don't think I'll mention that to him. |
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07-11-2005, 11:08 AM
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#632
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Podunkville
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Of all the gin joints in all the towns in all the world.
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Originally posted by nononono
Don't worry, NotBob, we'll always have Paris. Your parentheticals are noted. 
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So, is it "implied" or "inferred"? 
Welcome! I guess this means we do have a lurker or two (as opposed to a "long time lurker/first time poster") after all. |
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07-11-2005, 11:09 AM
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#633
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I am beyond a rank!
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Appalaichan Trail
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Of all the gin joints in all the towns in all the world.
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Originally posted by Not Bob
So, is it "implied" or "inferred"?
Welcome! I guess this means we do have a lurker or two (as opposed to a "long time lurker/first time poster") after all.
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I would tell you, but I know you already know, so you won't catch me in your web, mister! |
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07-11-2005, 11:16 AM
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#634
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Join Date: Mar 2003
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Update
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Originally posted by cuckold
I still haven't worked out what to do about Bill. I have of course made it clear I don't want him anywhere around. But it will be inevitable that I'll run into him someday. I need to have a plan, or I'll end up just sucker punching him. NTTAWWT.
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Now that you don't have to worry about divorce or losing the kids, you shouldn't worry about beating the shit out him. Am I right ss? All clear!
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07-11-2005, 11:21 AM
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#635
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I am beyond a rank!
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: In that cafe crowded with fools
Posts: 1,466
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Of all the gin joints in all the towns in all the world.
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Originally posted by Not Bob
So, is it "implied" or "inferred"?
Welcome! I guess this means we do have a lurker or two (as opposed to a "long time lurker/first time poster") after all.
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Thank you! What's the difference (on the lurker question; the answer to the first question can only be answered by you, I'd say!)?
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07-11-2005, 11:48 AM
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#636
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Moderator
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Podunkville
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The Importance of Being Earnest.
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Originally posted by nononono
Thank you! What's the difference (on the lurker question; the answer to the first question can only be answered by you, I'd say!)?
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Well, some here would think that any new poster who says something like "I'm a longtime lurker/first time poster" is a sock. |
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07-11-2005, 11:48 AM
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A good hard look at yourselves
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Originally posted by nononono
Don't worry, NotBob, we'll always have Paris. Your parentheticals are noted.
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This is more like it. I hate having to check two boards to keep up with NB's internet dalliances. |
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07-11-2005, 11:49 AM
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I am beyond a rank!
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: In that cafe crowded with fools
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The Importance of Being Earnest.
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Originally posted by Not Bob
Well, some here would think that any new poster who says something like "I'm a longtime lurker/first time poster" is a sock.
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Ah-ha. I knew the question sounded fishy. Mischievous!
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07-11-2005, 11:53 AM
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I am beyond a rank!
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: In that cafe crowded with fools
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Everything I do, I do it for you
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Originally posted by ironweed
This is more like it. I hate having to check two boards to keep up with NB's internet dalliances.
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Glad to help you out. But I wonder, is he still cheating on you if I am also posting here? Have we ruined the taboo?
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07-11-2005, 11:56 AM
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I am beyond a rank!
Join Date: Mar 2003
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Everything I do, I do it for you
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Originally posted by nononono
Glad to help you out. But I wonder, is he still cheating on you if I am also posting here? Have we ruined the taboo?
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Um... Fellas? If we keep talking about NotBob having internet dalliances, his cranium may implode.
He's already on thin ice just reading this board. Please. Think of the children.
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07-11-2005, 12:21 PM
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Random Syndicate (admin)
Join Date: Mar 2003
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07-11-2005, 12:33 PM
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#642
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Wild Rumpus Facilitator
Join Date: Mar 2003
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A good hard look at yourselves
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Originally posted by ironweed
This is more like it. I hate having to check two boards to keep up with NB's internet dalliances.
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I knew you were his wife!
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07-11-2005, 12:34 PM
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#643
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Wild Rumpus Facilitator
Join Date: Mar 2003
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Were they Grazing on Lemming Grass?
No. They were just "all wasted". (hi Gwinky!)
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07-11-2005, 01:41 PM
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#644
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World Ruler
Join Date: Apr 2003
Posts: 12,057
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Update
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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
Now that you don't have to worry about divorce or losing the kids, you shouldn't worry about beating the shit out him. Am I right ss? All clear!
TM
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Depends on what cuckold is wearing. I wouldn't ruin a nice suit over it or anything.
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07-11-2005, 01:53 PM
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#645
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Proud Holder-Post 200,000
Join Date: Sep 2003
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Update
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Originally posted by Shape Shifter
Depends on what cuckold is wearing. I wouldn't ruin a nice suit over it or anything.
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how come no one thinks that maybe Bill would be able to beat Cuckold's ass?
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