New Fashion Board 10-3-2003 - 11-7-2003

[Shape Shifter]

Originally posted by paigowprincess
Was there anything that annoyed you or gave you pause but you did it anyway?

Had a girl request rough sex/rape fantasy scenario. Couldn't do it. To paraphrase Soft Cell, I'm sorry I can't play that way. We split later for other reasons.

On "just annoying" front, I had an ex that had a thing for anal. Don't get me wrong, I certainly enjoy the occasional trip around back, but it should be kind of an occasional indulgence, like champagne or Indian food. I usually accomodated her, though. I'm a gentleman that way.

[evenodds]

Originally posted by Did you just call me Coltrane?
The line b/w hate and love is SO ambiguous!

We love agreeing with you!

Oh, Coltrane. You know I was lying. I didn't want Paigow to be jealous of our love.

Originally posted by evenodds
Weird and fetishy doesn't mean you're not willing to try. The first time you try anything it can be weird. To have great sex, you have to have the ability to communicate well with your partner. If something seems weird or fetishy, you discuss it. You give it a shot. Then it either works or it doesn't. If it works for both people it stays, it doesn't, it goes.

You are overanalyzing this. My question oringially asked whether someone asked you to do someting that was weird and fetishy to maybe be a dealkiller. Not just regular weird and fetishy. And one of the multiple choice answers was that you did it anywy.

fucking lawyers.

[evenodds]

Originally posted by paigowprincess
You are overanalyzing this. My question oringially asked whether someone asked you to do someting that was weird and fetishy to maybe be a dealkiller. Not just regular weird and fetishy. And one of the multiple choice answers was that you did it anywy.

fucking lawyers.

In other words, not a dealkiller, kill joy.

Originally posted by paigowprincess
You are overanalyzing this. My question oringially asked whether someone asked you to do someting that was weird and fetishy to maybe be a dealkiller. Not just regular weird and fetishy. And one of the multiple choice answers was that you did it anywy.

fucking lawyers.

so far Shape Shifter has answered and he did it properly. My problem now is that Burger said soemthing that made me not want to answer so I apologize. Shape Shifter, you may PM me and we can discuss

Originally posted by paigowprincess
Ok then. Nobody here has had anybody ask them to do anything they thought was weird and fetishy? . I guess that makes sense given this place.

carry on

Jeez. You guys don't get it. Paigow is looking for somebody else to say they did it first so she doesn't look like the group slut. Did all of you just skip right over junior high school?

Here you go, P: I was having an affair with a lovely young woman who disclosed to me that she liked to be strangled, ever so slightly, during the later stages of the performance. "Not choking," she explained, "but just a little bit of pressure there." I did my best to oblige, but frankly, felt a little bit like Ted Bundy, and, silently, vowed not to attempt to satisfy that particular need of hers ever again. She did not seem to hold my unwillingness to asphyxiate her against me.

Happy now? Good-- then I won't have to tell you about the gal who wanted me to go down on her immediately after I had delivered the payload, so to speak.

[Atticus Grinch]

Originally posted by Aloha Mr. Learned Hand
Plays Mr. Wick, the misogynistic, alcoholic, cokehead boss on The Drew Carey Show...

Aside from "Drew Carey," Craig Ferguson is also one of those people who's considered very funny in the UK but who hasn't really crossed over. I recommend one of the movies he wrote and supporting-roled in --- "Saving Grace," which is an absolute must-see for anyone with a mother who should have been a pot smoker, but was not. Which is almost everyone.

He should not be confused with Colin Ferguson, who was also briefly on "'80s Strikes Back" but is from Coupling USA. I remember him being good in "The Opposite of Sex."

[Shape Shifter]

Originally posted by paigowprincess
so far Shape Shifter has answered and he did it properly. My problem now is that Burger said soemthing that made me not want to answer so I apologize. Shape Shifter, you may PM me and we can discuss

No need to PM. Just pee on the guy, already.

[greatwhitenorthchick]

Originally posted by paigowprincess
You are overanalyzing this. My question oringially asked whether someone asked you to do someting that was weird and fetishy to maybe be a dealkiller. Not just regular weird and fetishy. And one of the multiple choice answers was that you did it anywy.

fucking lawyers.

This guy had a blood fetish which he would satisfy by using ketchup. That weirded me out plus I don't like the taste of ketchup. Did it anyway, but didn't want to have sex with him much after that. So ultimately I think a deal killer for what was not much of a relationship anyway.

[str8outavannuys]

Originally posted by paigowprincess
So did you ever get that t shirt from Hot Topix? I found them to be somewhat helpful in spotting the LA wannabes during my time living there, though not as helpful as say carrying around a daily variety and namedropping in a Toronto accent. Isn't america grand?

Paigow, I say this with all due respect:

Go fuck yourself.

And spare us the fucking details; nobody gives a fuck what you were watching, where you got it, or what device you were using on your genitals while you were doing it, or what your fucking body fat percentage was before, during and after.

Edited to add that if I was still gambling, which I am not, you would have ruined the great game of Paigow for me forever. Fucker.

[notcasesensitive]

Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
This guy had a blood fetish which he would satisfy by using ketchup. That weirded me out plus I don't like the taste of ketchup. Did it anyway, but didn't want to have sex with him much after that. So ultimately I think a deal killer for what was not much of a relationship anyway.

That is flat-out weird.

I've been trying to think of something in answer to Paigow's question, but I keep coming back to the fact that anytime something has squicked me out it has been because of the person asking/doing, not because in general I was opposed to it. I have said no or consented many times to doing things that I didn't want to do (at that time, or whatever), but mainly that had to do with being in relationships with people I was not attracted to. And that, my friends, is a Bad Idea. Just like the jeans.

[Mmmm, Burger (C.J.)]

Originally posted by paigowprincess
My problem now is that Burger said soemthing that made me not want to answer so I apologize.

What, he insisted on watching monday night football, not shows about porn, while fucking?

[Jack Manfred]

Originally posted by Replaced_Texan
I'm just wondering who would pay over a dollar fifty for a six pack of any soft drink.

Originally posted by baltassoc
Um. Guys. Especially "busy" professional type guys.... but I don't care if Coke is twice as much as Pepsi this week, I'm not buying Pepsi. I'm not waiting until next week. And I'm not running over to another store either.

Maybe I'm going to the wrong supermarkets, but the regular price of a six-pack of soda exceeds $2.00 over here. Maybe it's the recycling deposit or something. Back when I bought and drank copious amounts of Diet Coke (meaning the ten years ending last month), I'd always get the 2-liter bottles. For Paigow, that's a good tip that you're in the apartment of a Diet Coke addict: mulitple 2-liter bottles of Diet Coke. That means they care enough about the beverage to price it and buy in bulk on sale.

Aside from that, there are some soft drinks that are going to cost some money. If it's July Fourth and you're having a barbeque with friends, maybe when you go to Beverages & More, you pick up a six-pack or two of the Henry Weinhard's Root Beer after you've picked up some quality beer. Similarly, the Hansen's Natural Sodas cost more than $1.50 a six pack, even on those rare occasions that they're on sale.

If you're a lawyer and having a party, for Heaven's sake, don't give your guests the store brand stuff. There's a vaild point of view that you should skimp on the fixins to afford premium liquor, but this is the Fashion Board, not the Law Students Board. Even Adder can afford to buy the Tostitos.

Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
This guy had a blood fetish which he would satisfy by using ketchup. That weirded me out plus I don't like the taste of ketchup. Did it anyway, but didn't want to have sex with him much after that. So ultimately I think a deal killer for what was not much of a relationship anyway.

OK, that is just fucking weird. The rape fantasy I get, the strangle fantasy not so much, but blood?

He must have been great for relieving cramps though.

Now I am loathe to post mine bc it doesnt seemthta weird anymore.

[robustpuppy]

Originally posted by Mmmm, Burger (C.J.)
You got the quo. Where's the quid?

That's unfair. She didn't get any quo from you.

I haven't found any requests or desires to be dealkillers, but I did have an ex who sometimes liked to slap me on the ass when we were doing it, especially if he was behind me. It wasn't a turn on for me and it struck me (haha) as a kinda weird and kinda silly.

[Warning: armchair psychology to follow. He was feeling pretty insecure at that point in his life, particularly about his professional accomplishments and a certain love triangle situation and the fact that I was his boss, so maybe he was working out some stuff with me. That's what gave me the weird feeling. Not a dealkiller because the sex was generally fabulous, but the relationship was doomed because of the insecurity thing.]