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Originally posted by mmm3587
Yeah, that's the real rub. She keeps her shit together remarkably well. No crying, mascara running, puking, crazy drug seeking, etc. And it's great both when we are and when we aren't getting fucked up. If it were any other woman, I think that I would just stick around until things start to get messy, and then take off. But I really dig her, and there's a lot of shit that makes me say, "Damn, maybe she is right for me." Likes to do the same shit I like to do, good taste in all the stuff that I think is important, , calls me on all my shit and takes the piss out of me as needed, lots of fun to do normal, non-substance abusing/partying stuff with. And she is exceptionally fun at the partying, too, even when it's low key.
It's a tough decsision. I will wait. It's too much fun in the meantime, and maybe I am just worrying too much.
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Just remember that substance abusers are crafty. If you've said only once "haven't you had enough" or "shouldn't you stop now" this is a sign that you are not accepting her behavior. The substance abuse you are seeing is probably not all that is happening. There is probably "closet" snorting/drinking while you're not around. Or in the ladies room. Or while you sleep. Trust me on this.
And also remember that the longer you're together, the harder it is going to be to leave - for one or both of you.
But until that point - party on dude.
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